One reason that candles are taboo inside dorm rooms is the close quarters. A high one is more exposed, giving the flame more room to ‘jump. For an exposed wick, a cigarette lighter or match is fine. Use your candle collection responsibly and enjoy all the benefits they have to offer.- If you or someone in your household has respiratory challenges, consider soy-based candles that emit no scent. For mature candles that have begun to lose their wicks, use a lighter that lets you keep the flame